07 Jan
We all know that what we see influences us, yet many people defend violence in the media and in computer games. Opinions reflect each person’s bias on the matter, so it’s always helpful when research clarifies the facts. Sadly we have such a high level of scorn toward some truths that we need empirical evidence [...]
Filed under: Ministry, Parenting, Youth Issues — Chris Field @ 9:04 am
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21 Dec
While reviewing a report on teen sexual behaviour I noted a comment that should sound a serious warning to the modern church. The comment points out that the church is irrelevant in impacting the behaviour of teens.
Oh, and I don’t mean it is irrelevant to all those people who have never been to church, I [...]
Filed under: Ministry, Parenting, Youth Issues — Chris Field @ 9:48 am
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17 Dec
Among the young men and young women I get to help from time to time I find that a common problem is the wasted life. It is easy for youth to think they have an abundance of time and opportunity stretching before them and that they can well afford to waste it.
Several young men have [...]
Filed under: Parenting, Youth Issues — Chris Field @ 9:37 am
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01 Oct
That eager lad dashed about with inexhaustible energy. And he bore an idealism fitting for his youth. He didn’t know the tears and toil that time would add to his account.
He knelt in prayer and dedicated every waking breath. And then he stood and spent himself for everyone who called. Silly boy! How they used [...]
Filed under: Manhood, Ministry, Poetry & Prose, Youth Issues — Chris Field @ 8:26 am
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27 Sep
We live in a Fatherless World, as I explained in a recent post. So, how do fathers and sons work together to create this fatherless situation? That’s the question I want to explain in this update posting.
Fatherless-ness Defined
Fatherless-ness is the condition of being with the true fathering which God intended. Fathering is a divine calling [...]
Filed under: Family, Manhood, Parenting, Youth Issues — Chris Field @ 9:09 am
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17 Sep
What do you do when children are disappointed? How do you solve their upset if you have let them down in some way? Should parents placate an upset child? Or is this a place for tough discipline? What is your solution?
Children Face Disappointments
Every child faces disappointments along the way. They may want you to be [...]
Filed under: Parenting, Youth Issues — Chris Field @ 9:01 am
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01 Sep
Westerners have little grip on authority. Most westerners don’t have authority, because they are not under authority. Most westerners have violated their right to rule by refusing to be ruled. Of course they are ruled, or indeed dominated, but their spirit is one of insubordination and independence. So they have lost the right to rule.
This [...]
Filed under: Family, Manhood, Ministry, Womanhood, Youth Issues — Chris Field @ 9:43 am
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20 Aug
Giving Honour, which I have looked at in some recent posts, is a matter of the heart. We are commanded to give honour, not as an outward form but as a heart choice. The problem in our society is that we have lost the notion of honour and only the form remains.
In bygone eras the [...]
Filed under: Family, Marriage, Ministry, Parenting, Womanhood, Youth Issues — Chris Field @ 9:31 am
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18 Aug
Aussie males have a problem getting the help they need. This is probably true in other cultures as well. It’s the problem of ego and ignorance making people think that to need help makes one ‘helpless’. That thought is not true, and it’s a mental stronghold that needs to be pulled down. So, I’m starting [...]
Filed under: Manhood, Ministry, Youth Issues — Chris Field @ 9:14 am
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17 Aug
Today’s pop culture acts as if youth is the time for indulgence, independence and unbridled pursuit of self-fulfilment. That idea is not only a deadly and useless one, it is a modern notion that defies the time-tested ideas of youth as a vital time to plant and build.
Let me take you back to some concepts [...]
Filed under: Manhood, Womanhood, Youth Issues — Chris Field @ 9:19 am
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