We encounter various forms of pressure on our lives from others. We may have a demanding parent, or a teacher who threatens to fail us if we don’t get a project finished. There are those who tease and scorn us if we don’t go along with their ideas.
From the schoolyard to the workplace and at home and society we face pressure from people who want us to conform to their will.
Many people have gone along with things through life that were not their will. Some have suffered severely for it. Others have ended up with habits and constraints placed on them by the pressure of others.
In all of that, however, we should note that God does not force us to do anything. Even though there are extreme consequences for us rejecting God, committing sin and going our own way, God never strong-arms us to make us do the right thing.
Instead God keeps making invitations to us. We are advised and invited to do the right thing, over and over again.
At times, wonderfully, God picks up the pace of confirming to us His call and His love for us. But we are always left with the choice.
If we keep shutting God’s voice down, ignoring Him so we can go our own way, we will still His voice in our life and be left mostly to our own activities. This is tragic, since the only hope we have of eternal blessing and true fulfilment in life is through being God’s child.
A classic Bible verse showing God waiting for our response is the image of Christ standing at the door of our heart and knocking. We are the ones who must open to Him. He will not kick down the door.
“Behold, I stand at the door, and knock: if any man hear my voice, and open the door, I will come in to him, and sup with him, and he with me.” Revelation 3:20
There is also the wider cry to the whole community, inviting each of us to come to Christ and receive rest from Him.
“Come to me, all you who labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.” Matthew 11:28
God offers us things we can’t get ourselves. We are spiritually bankrupt, without any capacity to buy the things that have true value. Yet, despite our inability to pay, God invites us to receive the things we truly need, without having to have the money.
“Ho, every one that thirsts, come to the waters, and he that has no money; come, buy, and eat; yes, come, buy wine and milk without money and without price.” Isaiah 55:1
These invitations confirm each other, as invitations not demands. We will face terrible consequences if we do not have Christ as our saviour, but God does not compel us to accept Christ. It is always an invitation.
Jesus not only offers us eternal salvation, to be enjoyed in heaven, but the very present power of the Holy Spirit in our lives on earth. This filling with the Holy Spirit is what empowered the early church to turn the world upside down, and empowered all the miracles of Jesus.
And the Holy Spirit is offered to all people who will accept salvation through Christ. It is the inheritance of all of God’s children. Jesus made a very public call to the people to receive the Holy Spirit through Him.
“On the last and greatest day of the feast, Jesus stood up and called out in a loud voice, If anyone is thirsty, let him come to Me and drink. Whoever believes in Me, as the Scripture has said, Streams of living water will flow from his innermost being. He was speaking about the Spirit.” John 7:37-39
Here we see a wonderful promise given, not as a lure, but as a statement of fact. There is great blessing in responding to God’s invitation and receiving Christ. This is not the tacky offer of a salesman trying to coerce you to buy what you don’t want. Christ offers us the most amazing value in all eternity, full of wonderful blessings in this life and the next.
Yet, among Christians it is still commonplace to find people who accept Christ yet still resist the ongoing wooing voice of the Lord.
The invitation is not simply for salvation, but for a life of ever becoming more like Christ.
Note how that verse about Christ at the door was directed to Christians, not to the unsaved. So there is a fresh stream of invitation coming to us from the Lord, prompting us to go deeper with Him and to receive more of what He has for us.
We also have a picture from the Song of Solomon of the husband visiting his wife and her finding his arrival inconvenient.
“I sleep, but my heart wakes: it is the voice of my beloved that knocks, saying, Open to me, my sister, my love, my dove, my undefiled: for my head is filled with dew, and my locks with the drops of the night.” Song of Solomon 5:2
The wife replies that she has already gone to bed and washed her feet. She reflects a self-focused attitude about her own inconvenience.
“I have put off my coat; how shall I put it on? I have washed my feet; how shall I defile them?” Song of Solomon 5:3
Many a Christian is happy with the level of relationship they have with God and resists growing deeper in their walk with Him. It is rare to find a Christian who is enjoying an ever deepening relationship with God.
The husband put his hand to the latch, and at that glimpse of him the wife is moved.
“My beloved put his hand to the latch, and my heart was thrilled within me.” Song of Solomon 5:4
So the wife finally responds and rises to open the door. However her beloved has departed. This leads her to go searching for him.
This tussle of human tardiness to respond to God’s wooing is not uncommon. Our selfishness and desire for the familiar and secure, keep us resisting God’s call to go deeper into the things of the Spirit and the heavenly wonders we can access.
We also have our comfort in mind. We like the familiarity and security of our pattern of life.
However, the best things in life are still waiting for you. They are the things of God’s Kingdom still waiting to be explored. They are the things of an ever deepening relationship with God and an ever more glorious revelation of Christ in you.
However those things will never be forced on you. You must choose to respond to God and accept His invitation.
I urge you to stop resisting God and to yield to Christ’s invitations that are Wooing Your Heart.