The Barley Harvest Blessing – Coming Soon!

I refer to something which I call the BARLEY HARVEST BLESSING. It came to my attention just a few days ago. This is what happened.

On August 11, 2007 an associate of the Family Horizons ministry contacted me to ask about the relevance of the Barley Harvest, since a prophetic anointing brought it into focus. The man’s wife had been in prayer a month earlier (mid July 2007) when she sensed a strong impression while seeking God about her family’s future, particularly in regard to investing in property. The words that were impressed to her were …..

“A STORM is coming, but I will hide you from it and the waters will not overflow you.Then you will enjoy the BARLEY HARVEST.”

The warning of an impending storm was realised in the recent upheavals on financial markets, due to the sub-prime lending concerns in the USA. With that development the husband contacted me for an interpretation of “Barley Harvest”.

Harvest is self-explanatory and it promises increase and abundance. So that’s wonderful.

However, was there a specific significance to the BARLEY harvest?

As I sought the Lord my spirit was quickened when I found one of the few Biblical references to Barley Harvest, in the book of Ruth. My heart thrilled at the promise this prophetic word brings. Allow me to share this encouragement with you.

I noted that Ruth and Naomi arrived back in Bethlehem at the BEGINNING OF THE BARLEY HARVEST!

“So Naomi returned, and Ruth the Moabitess, her daughter in law, with her, which returned out of the country of Moab: and they came to Bethlehem in the beginning of barley harvest.” Ruth 1:22

In a short time following their return to Bethlehem, during the Barley Harvest season, significant things happened for both Ruth and Naomi. As we anticipate the beginning of a new spiritual BARLEY HARVEST, these same significant things can be expected in the lives of God’s servants.

Naomi’s case.

Here was a woman who had lost everything. Her husband was dead, her sons were dead and she was no longer a well-to-do wife and mother, but an impoverished widow. Yet, at the beginning of the Barley Harvest she returned to her spiritual roots and received the RESTORATION of her spiritual inheritance. At the outset she was the wife of a faithless Jew who gave her two sons. He was faithless because he did not trust God to provide during the drought, but left for a foreign land, dominated by foreign gods. Now she found a kinsman redeemer who not only restored her fortunes but connected her to God’s lineage to Jesus Christ.

Ruth’s case.

Here was a woman who had been led into connection with God and God’s people through some compromised believers. Her spiritual connection with Israel was through a faithless man who had abandoned the Promised Land during a drought. That man and his sons then suffered death in a foreign land. Despite the tenuous nature of her connection with the God of Israel, Ruth still chose to possess that connection, no matter how poorly it was established. “Your God will be my God, your people my people”, she said to Naomi. Then, within the weeks of the Barley Harvest, Ruth’s connection with the God of Israel was amazingly upgraded. By her marriage to Boaz she became the great-grandmother to King David and in the lineage of Jesus Christ.

In Summary: the Barley Harvest was a season of two wonderful blessings. It was a time of restoration of lost inheritance. It was also a time for upgrading the spiritual connection to God’s Kingdom purposes.

As we anticipate a Barley Harvest let us all believe God for the Barley Harvest Blessing.

Let us look for restored inheritance, calling and purpose, such that people who have pulled back from ministry, lost their vision, been burned, abandoned or exploited in the past, will be reinvigorated to the fervour and commitment they once had.

Let us also look for those who have a tenuous connection to God and His purposes to be caught up into whole new realms of engagement in God’s Kingdom, ministry, anointing, gifting and life purpose.

Let us stir up faith for the apprehending of the BARLEY HARVEST BLESSING

What is Your Model of Marriage?

How To Understand Your Marriage Model and What You Are Building

When people build a marriage they work from a model or concept that they are looking to follow. People have expectations, desires and even dreams of what marriage will be for them. In the Western world our ideas of marriage are largely driven by “romance” and sentiment.

Having studied marriage around the world, in African tribes, European families, South American homes, Pacific Islands, Asian communities and America, England and Australia as well, I have noted that certain popular models prevail.

While romance is the Western ideal, people have come up with various ideas about how a marriage should work in practice. There are several models that people consider appropriate. People look for a spouse who has a similar model or who will fit in with their own expectations. If they have not clarified this ahead of time then there could be quite some tension if the husband and wife work from different models.

What is your marriage all about? Can you see yourself in any of these common concepts or practical realities?

Assigned Duties

A common model is that the couple will have various assigned duties in the marriage. The wife, for example, may be the home-maker while the husband is the main income earner. The wife may take care of the home while the husband looks after the yard and externals. The wife may attend to the children’s school activities, while the husband attends to their sporting interests.

The model gives each spouse their assigned roles. If a spouse does not do their part properly the other can prompt them about it. One will not take on the role of the other unless there is some prior agreement or a necessity arises.

Mutual Obligation

In the same vein as the Assigned Duties model, the idea of Mutual Obligation is that both husband and wife expect to get certain benefits, such as sexual intimacy, security and comfort, out of the marriage, but accept that they share obligations as well. They see that there should be a level of fairness in the distribution of responsibilities, based on interests and abilities.

The 50-50 Partnership

This takes the idea of Mutual Obligation to the point of negotiated equality. This model is often promoted by wives who are afraid of being lorded over by a man. They choose the 50:50 partnership model because it sounds quite equitable and fair, while allowing them room to resist any imposition made on them by a husband, especially if the husband does not measure up.

It’s a Man’s World

This model is based on the idea that the man is king and the woman is blessed to be his bride. The woman’s pay-off is that she gets to be wife to a man whom she considers desirable, because of this image or his ability to provide. While certain macho males will hold to this model it also works for those who are wealthy or who have some other attribute that makes them a good catch. The wife can have the benefits of the money, fame or social standing, but the price is that she must make the man happy.

The Idolised Woman

This model appeals to those men who feel a strong need for a woman in their life. They may seek sexual favours or look for a strong woman who will mother them. They consider it a privilege to be married to their wife and will do all in their power to make and keep her happy. The woman is happy to have such devotion, but usually finds her husband quite unsatisfactory when the height of his focus is only her.

Something Is Better Than Nothing

This kind of marriage works for those who don’t expect to get a particularly good deal out of life and who accept the opportunities that come along on the basis that there may not be anything else. A couple may marry and make the best of the situation, while neither is particularly impressed with the other or with the marriage.

Let’s See If It Works

Many people enter into marriage with no real confidence that the relationship will work. They give it a shot, but have no real understanding of how to build a solid marriage. If it works they are happy, but if it falls apart, they feel that there was nothing they could do about it.

The Obligatory Duty

Some people feel as if marriage is something they must do and endure because it is expected of them. They find a spouse, or have an arranged marriage, and do their part as best they know how. They suffer the indignities, put up with the problems and are glad for the happy moments. Marriage is not something that excites them, but is something that is expected of them and they yield to that social pressure.

The Contract

In view of so many marriages disintegrating and people being left with pain over asset distribution and sorting out the mess, the idea of a contract is increasingly popular. With second marriages, people are more likely to define who owns what and what will happen if they divorce. Pre-nuptial agreements are occurring more commonly, to prepare for the eventuality of divorce. Whether anything is ever written or signed, the concept of the contract is common. The idea is that each spouse is only bound to the marriage if the other person upholds their end of the bargain.

In my books, MARRIAGE HORIZONS and MENDING MARRIAGES, I investigate the bigger picture of marriage. But for now, consider these questions. Is you marriage what it is supposed to be? Have you built something worthy of your life and your spouse? What are you doing about making your marriage better?

The most effective marriages are those where the couple work ON their marriage, not just IN the marriage. The more determined you are to be the best “you” you can be and to have the best marriage you can have, the more likely you are to move forward and enjoy a better life.

However, let me give you a word of caution. Don’t assume that your ideas are right just because they suit you. And don’t assume you are right just because you can convince your spouse to go along with you. The smartest people look for exemplars, mentors and benchmarks that lead them beyond their personal best, to things that are better still.

I congratulate you for taking the time to read this. You obviously want to have your marriage succeed. My prayer is that your marriage is successful and blessed, and a role model for the next generation.