Over the years I have heard people appeal for the right to have their own way, based on sentimental ideas. By sentimental I mean thinking about what seems right, what would be a nice outcome, what would make people happy or what would avoid awkwardness and pain.
Consider this statement I heard many years ago, “Surely God wants me to be happy!” The person was warned that taking their preferred course of action was not in line with God’s Word. But it was a course of action the person wanted to follow because they believed it would make them feel better.
I have heard people object to plain explanation of a Bible truth because speaking about it might upset some people. For example, some people don’t handle discussion of judgment or hell, or don’t like hearing about Godly morals, since they don’t want to live by them.
Some Christian communities have decided certain Bible truths are not to be discussed, since they are uncomfortable.
These situations suggest people can be ruled by sentiment, rather than truth. Yet truth is truth and sentimental considerations may well rob a person of the power of Truth in their lives. Let me remind you that it is Truth that has power to set us free.
“You will know the truth and the truth will set you free” John 8:32
Sentiment might seem to be a protection to sensitive hearts, but sentiment will never set us free.
Obviously there are sensibilities in the way we speak about things. We use many euphemisms to avoid saying unpleasant things. We simplify things for children and avoid speaking about things they are not emotionally mature enough to deal with. We have soft terms for such things as death. We might say to a child, “That man is not a very nice man”, when in fact he is a violent criminal.
I am not advocating that we speak stark facts without considering our audience. But I am concerned that sentiment can be a cloak for hiding from the truth.
When a person retreats into a cloud of sentiment they can be rejecting God’s truth. They might, for instance, want to believe a deceased loved-one did not go to hell. So they might say, “I’m sure God knows they had a hard life and will be kind to them.” That’s a nice idea, but it’s a purely sentimental idea.
I was once told by a church woman that despite what the Bible said about needing to put faith in Christ, she was sure God would respect all the nice things she does for people. The lady clearly relied on her works, not on faith. And she had a nice sentimental way to justify it.
So sentiment can be very dangerous to our acceptance of God’s truth.
The Bible warns against looking at things from human perspective. When we try to evaluate things based on our perspective we bring in such sentimental things as feelings, niceness, fairness and what seems to cause the least upset to people. But note the words of James.
“This wisdom does not come from above, but is earthly, sensual (appealing to human sensibilities and desires) and devil inspired.” James 3:15
So a real danger in following sentimental ideas is that we are following evil wisdom that is fed to us from the devil. That’s along with the fact that when we promote sentiment we deny people the Truth that will set them free.
I know of people who could not bring themselves to tell a dear loved one that the loved one was a sinner needing to put faith in Christ. That dear loved one was so nice and kind, that it seemed out of place to suggest they were anything but a saint. Yet, without faith in Christ the sweetest and kindest of people will not be in heaven as God’s children for eternity.
If you have allowed sentimental ideas to influence how you think and see things, then you have denied truth. That puts you in a place of compromise and makes you vulnerable to things that seem wise and that suit your sentimentality, but which are used by the devil to steal, kill and destroy.
Do not be Ruled by Sentiment. Be nice in the right situations, but don’t allow truth to be displaced by sentimental, emotional ideas or concerns. If you become Ruled by Sentiment Truth will be pushed out of your life. It is said of the devil that the truth is not in him.
“You are of your father the devil, and the desires of your father you will do. He was a murderer from the beginning, and does not abide in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he speaks a lie, he speaks out of himself, for he is a liar and the father of lies.” John 8:44
We too can find that the truth is not in us.
“He who says, I know God, and does not keep God’s commandments, is a liar, and the truth is not in him.” 1John 2:4
When you displace God’s Word and God’s Truth with your sentimental ideas then ‘the truth is not in you’.
Imagine a cruel, abusive mother appealing for the right to dominate her children, appealing, “I am their mother. Surely you can’t deny a mother her children.” That’s an appeal based on sentiment. However abuse is not the behaviour of a ‘mother’, but of an abuser. Sentiment clouds the mind and muddies the water.
What about the happiness appeal? “I know this isn’t how God would want it in an ideal world, but our relationship makes us happy. Surely you can see that.”
We may see human happiness, but God doesn’t make human happiness the standard for our behaviour. Thieves would be happier if they could steal more, and abusers could feel happier if there was no law against it. But human happiness is subject to God’s moral order.
We are answerable to our Creator, a moral God of the highest standard. We are measured against God’s moral code, not our sentimental ideas.
Friends, I’m perfectly happy to be sentimental. But we can’t be Ruled by Sentiment. It is the wrong basis for our thinking and living. We are to be Ruled by Truth, even if that upsets our ideas of niceness, fairness and human happiness. As we live by Truth we live in Freedom.
So friends stop and take a look at your life and your values, and be sure you are not being Ruled by Sentiment.